Old 03-24-2006   #76
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yeah...i love my girlfriend, she is literally the only person i would ever take a bullet for, and then feel that it was all totally worth it. right now, we're in a rough patch, but we're in the process of fixing it, thank god. i'm so lucky to have her.
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Good for you, hope everything works out for you guys. I'll talk to her about a relationship, and we'll see what happens. Thanx for talking JMR, you've been a big help. <3
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Last night that douchebag showed up. I was just sittin' at someone's house watching SWAT(which is a kick-ass movie) and he stopped by. Took this girl's candy from her, so he could point out that he was going to smoke by saying, "I'm going to be hungry later haha."

Oh and he bitched around enough to get a few people to not like me. Told one that I talked shit about him behind his back, which I didn't but oh well. And bitched to some other guy who hates me now, even though he doesn't even know me.

And some girl went kinda nuts last night. We smoked and went to play on this big-ass snow mountain at a parking lot near my house. Me and this other girl claimed power over the biggest one, and explained how we were the king and queen of the kingdom, and our mountain was the capital of the entire place. The other girl went across the place to a smaller snow mountain and we decided she was queen of some other lower kingdom. She started walking away so we came down and followed her because we were going to the same place too. She asked if we were done fucking or somethin and just got all wierd.

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update: That fucking douchebag stole my weed. He's fucking dead. I swear to god, I'm going to get him down and kick him in the fucking face.
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GTA Mike, thats good to hear, for a relationship that long, it's shite for it end, glad you worked it all out
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No bother Gta, always good to hear a relationship is workin out
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I've had a few girlfriends...they alwayz end up dumping me tho..Lol
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Crayonbox, try talkin to this guy, tell him to stop talkin about you behind your back, make one last peaceful effort, and if that doesn't work, then you kick him in the face
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meh...

shitty situation

I've been dating this amazing girl for 2 and a half months now. Things have been great up until now, and I've grown to really like her, if not love her. You can never be too sure about these things...

Anyway, for about a week or two now, things have been odd. Something 'clicked', and my perspective about the relationship has changed. She says she feels the same thing, except she is half-and-half between staying together or ending the relationship. She says that it's nothing I did, she says I'm a sweetheart, and the fact that I am a sweetheart makes the decision even harder for her. I've talked to two of her best friends, and a lot of my friends who have had serious relationships, and they all say that somewhere between two and four months a transition happens, the transition from the excited period that happens in every relationship to the "just comfortable" period. Some have said it's also the point where one or both will wonder "is this serious?", but I really don't know. I've had the same feelings she has at times, but I knew that's not what I really thought, so I just ignored them, and eventually they went away for good.

Something happened (twice, actually) that may have contributed to her acting strangely. We talk sometimes via text messages and AIM, and as those who use either will know, it's hard sometimes to convey your emotions through text. Well, about two weeks ago, I had a pretty bad day. I figured that if I talked to her, I knew that I could go to her, and she would help. Well, as I was talking to her (via a text message...not sure why I did it on a text message, but whatever), she thought that I was taking my anger out on her, which I didn't mean to do at all. I never meant to make it seem that way. It seems she took it the completely wrong way. I'm still kicking myself in the ass for it. Well, she was a bit upset, and thought about breaking up for about a day, but got over it and things were normal. Then, a week ago, the same thing happened. I had yet another shitty day, and wanted to talk to her about it over AIM. Well, the same thing happened. She misinterpreted what I was saying totally. After that, she began to be unsure of whether she wanted to stay with me or not. She went from saying things were okay and she didn't want to leave me, to being unsure yet again.

(copy paste from an advice forum full of grammar nazis, that's why it's so 'formal')

so...can anyone tell me if this is like, normal? it's her first real relationship, so i'm guessing that might add to it a bit. i greatly appreciate any advice anyone can give me...
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I guess if it's her first serious relationship, she's gonna be 'nervous'. Seeing as she's never been in this position, she probably thinks this transitional period is her losing feelings for you completely. That thing about having bad days and her misinterpreting it sucks, it could be worth not talking to her, but too other people when you have bad days. Sorry, not helpful really, but hey
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yeah, i've talked to so many people about this. most people say to just give her time, space, and to treat her like a queen, and things will be okay. her two best friends said this, too, and they know her pretty well, so i'm just gonna go with that.

i've never been this fucking worried or scared in my entire life, though.
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would the relationship fail cos she doesnt know that you like her so much? i can tell you're crazy about her, I don't know if you tell her though, so that good be it.
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yeah, i tell her all the time.
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well, tbh, I think thats the best you can do. Can't really suggest anything, it sounds like you're trying your best to save this.
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yeah...she even said there's nothing i can do.

i have two choices, break up with her myself, and feel shitty, or wait it out and feel shitty.

i like the latter more.

gotta admit though, i have never felt worse in my life.
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