I had never heard of moneygram before that day, from what I read up on it it seems safe. I still think it's safe for making payments, it's just the people I was dealing with give it a bad name... since I know perfectly well they got the money, they just claim they don't.
Police was supprosed to of phoned me back today but havent, but hopefully they will actually do something about this as I recorded all chats / emails and managed to get a couple of people's names and an address. Shall see what tomorrow brings. But in the mean time I just bought a refurbished ps3 from play.com, and I know I will definatly get it from them lol