FG
08-15-2009, 11:45 PM
In 2001 I was considering what I should do next , constant thinking of the future , I decided to take the advice I was given and just let it unfold...so I did , and it freed up my mind and it all worked out for the best.
So I did what really freed my mind , a lot (also a great side benefit ) i got to know my kid better , he came in one day and seen I was playing gta III , he watched for a time , making comments about how it was a cool game , had heard talk at school about it .
So I said to him here , you play a bit . I set back to watch him , and I swear , for over 2 hours he just walked every where , I got to the point where I had to ask him , hey how come you have not got in a car once. He said " I don't want to miss anything"
So I understood , like myself speeding thru life , he had learned not to do , what I had done , not seeing everything when its all speeding by you at warp speed...wisdom from one so young.
He did get a car , it was worth the wait ....and yeah it got messed up quick, started smoking, flames shooting up , it was time to bail!! He did just in the nick of time.
Maybe another reason he walked around for the 1st hours , the car blew and we both lol. He must of hit every pole,car,wall, etc; in the game...his driving skill got better by the end of the day.
but better , we got better...at life, together.
So I did what really freed my mind , a lot (also a great side benefit ) i got to know my kid better , he came in one day and seen I was playing gta III , he watched for a time , making comments about how it was a cool game , had heard talk at school about it .
So I said to him here , you play a bit . I set back to watch him , and I swear , for over 2 hours he just walked every where , I got to the point where I had to ask him , hey how come you have not got in a car once. He said " I don't want to miss anything"
So I understood , like myself speeding thru life , he had learned not to do , what I had done , not seeing everything when its all speeding by you at warp speed...wisdom from one so young.
He did get a car , it was worth the wait ....and yeah it got messed up quick, started smoking, flames shooting up , it was time to bail!! He did just in the nick of time.
Maybe another reason he walked around for the 1st hours , the car blew and we both lol. He must of hit every pole,car,wall, etc; in the game...his driving skill got better by the end of the day.
but better , we got better...at life, together.