I love you.

[Ritchie]

Right I don't know if this is the right forum..so yeah, move to off topic if needed.
It's something that REALLY bothers me.
I think people use "I love you" way too fast..Like take my friend as an example..
He met this chick at a party a few days ago, now he's dating her and his nickname is all "OMG I LOVE YOU, YOURE THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME" etc
Me personally, I find it really difficult to tell someone I "love" them..and I can't believe you can REALLY love someone after just knowing each other for a few days/weeks.

[ska]

I think love is when you care enough about someone to just wish they're happy wherever they are and whatever they do, whether it's with or without you.

[Kodo]

i see what you're saying, most of the time that isn't real love when its said like that

but i actually believe in love at first sight because this girl i had a crush on in high school, well she called me a few months later in the summer for some random reason and it happened to be right as i finished recovering from a week long strep throat. this was 4 days before i was about to move to france also. we decided to hang out and really became interested after just one night. i could say i fell in love with her then because i knew i was about to leave, and probably never see her again, but i felt such a strong connection. and it was such an odd string of coincidences with the timing of everything. this was 2 years ago, she's still my gf, and we very rarely fight each other so i know we love each other.

i think love is when you care more about someone's well being that your own, when they make you a better person, and when you make them a better person.

[.:Mouldy Punk:.]

I don't like saying the initial 'i love you'. Reason being, the phrase tends to get over used from then on, and it starts losing its meaning. Begins to sound more like you're trying to reassure yourself more than anything.

Well...that's how it was towards the end of my last proper relationship :p

[phlipp]

i so agree ^^^
lol i had it the same way
it was my own way of reassuring myself that she did back. (which wasnt the case...dirty h*e cheated. ><)

[Legham]

Yeah, i always think its lame when my friends say i love you to their gf after a couple of weeks with them when it's so obviously not true. I didn't say it to my gf for a couple of months, even though i did love her before i said it. We only started saying it cause she accidentally blurted it out to me a few times, then on about the third time she didn't bother trying to cover it up.

[doombringer12]

i believe in love at first sight but u never know

[Cold]

Lol, I hate when people just hook up with some random person, then go on about how inlove they are, when they only knew each other for a month. Long sentence.

[ZCAB]

I don't feel "I love you" belongs in any specific part of a relationship, early or late. As long as I know when I'm personally comfortable saying it, I couldn't care less about other people saying it "too early", or just to get laid.

[Pablo Escobar Jr.]

I've never even told my mom I love her.




And quit frankly, I don't.

[cyrix]

Well until any of us can really define love in set terms then I think it's ok to use whenever.

My last girlfriend I fell in love with after just being with her for 2 days. And I'm still in love with her and it's been 10 months since we split up.

The one before her I was with for 5 years and I didn't really feel I was in love with her at all throughout it. I loved her, but I wasn't "in love" with her. These are two completely different things. Bear that in mind.

[Holster]

I hate it when there's young immature stupid 13 year old's or something like that who do this, there's loads of people in my year who do this, as soon as they're going out with someone it's straight on their MSN names "...." Loves "...." Loadzzz.. what's all that about? they don't even know what love is =/ i think it's turned into a rule like as soon as you're going out with someone you have to say you love them and have it on your MSN name straight away..

There's only some people who say it when the time is right for them and when they genuinely mean it.

[guilty.by.association]

You're right people don't love them. They think they do but it's just infatuation. You don't know what love is until you finally get it. I had "loved" many people before i found "the one".

[Tendercrisp]

I may say it flippantly sometimes to friends when they do small nice things like buy me a drink. And I do piss myself off a little when I catch myself doing that.

Although true love is really expressed through your actions and not your words. The people who I do love understand this.